Baby Mama's: how does it work for you?

So... its popular to attempt to trap a man with a baby, and I'm just wondering how exactly does it work for you, in seeing that, usually a child is not enough to secure the man... That he will either go on to have other children or marry someone else, that is childless. I'm wondering, exactly how many times do we have to see this model, to understand that it doesn't work..... How many times do we have to watch the children of broken homes grow up and become menaces to society because of their identity issues? Don't we see the deadly cycle? Can't we become proactive? Can't we begin to give our children the best possible start by being selective with whom we become intimate with and who we bare children by? Now In realty, I know there are some woman that get caught up with guys that are flip artists ( pretend to be something that they are not), but in most cases.. The women must take responsibility for who they have had children by. At least the majority of the men I have ever known were always forthright with what they did or didn't want.... I believe some women hear these truths and determine in their mind that they can change the man with time.... much to my dismay and countless others... this doesn't usually fare well. If you decide to stick it out with a man to decide if he will materialize into the man of your dreams... please don't bring any children into it.

Is everybody Gay?

So.... I'm starting to feel like this 'gay' thing is a trendy epidemic.... Now that it is on the forefront of politics and ballots.. I have been noticing, in the community, a disturbing influx of gay folks...I'm thinking... no WAY all these people are gay......... and I'm not at all afraid to comment on it.... I have a few questions to pose to the gay community because I know you will find your way to this post... and attack it...
First of all, WHYYYYYYYYY is it so imperative that everyone accept you and recognize you? If your cause is legitimate.... you don't care who cosigns on it.....if it is truly the right thing to do. Secondly..... why the incredible push to adopt or manipulate fertility treatments so that you and your partner may enjoy children? Gays can not physically reproduce... so why not just be together.. and take it as it comes... you are having the best of both worlds.. in which you deviate your bodies... AND then syphon children from someone else.. or the use of technology... and Most importantly...... who will save your soul? The Bible clearly outlines the cost for this type of behavior.. even if you manage to have a decent life on earth..... you are willing to put your eternity on the line for sexual pleasure? IJS

"In the name of"

I crossed a story about a young British Muslim man that randomly killed a young soldier in the name of Islam.. and I just had to pose the question.. What's up with violence in the name of your god? cause my God doesn't promote violence whatsoever.... hmmmmmmm..... it just boggles me. Now I know this is controversial because in our current culture.. noone dares speak out against the Muslims, but rather the Christian instead... Muslims can flood our country, observe their religious holidays and take their Koran around with them.. but whenever anyone mentions the one true God.. everyone gets all bent out of shape... Ironic or Demonic? You tell me! I'll tell you what i believe.... I believe that people do whatever is in their heart.. and then seek to justify it with their religion..  There are even people who try to misconstrue the Bible. and use it for evil.. but none of that is God. My God asks you to turn the other cheek, My God is sacrificial... and when he could have destroyed so many people along the course of his life here on earth, he demonstrated nothing but mercy. If you choose to have irresponsible behavior, you must own up to it.. and stop blaming other sources.. You look stupid and you are bringing a bad rep to your 'god'. SMH....